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Tuesday, 7 April 2026
Wednesday, April 8, 2026 - Are you not able to see God because he does not reveal himself or because you do not open wide your heart?
To read the texts click on the texts: Acts 3:1-10; Lk 24:13-35
"That
very day” – This phrase refers to the immediately preceding scene in which the
women who saw the empty tomb return and narrate to the eleven and to all the
rest what they had witnessed. The response of those who heard about the empty
tomb from the women interpreted it as an “idle tale and they did not believe
them” (24:11).
“two
of them” – these are not identified, though later we are told that one of them
is Cleopas (24:18). Luke could be intending that the reader place him/herself
in the position of the ones who are travelling.
“all
these things that had happened” – This phrase refers to all that has happened
in the passion and death of Jesus.
“While
they were talking and discussing together, Jesus himself drew near and went
with them. But their eyes were kept from recognizing him.” – They are
discussing the things that happened to Jesus when Jesus himself approaches
them. These verses also make us wonder how and when they will recognize him.
While the use of the passive tense “were kept” may indicate that God prevented
them from recognizing him, it may also indicate that their closed attitude or
their despondency kept them from recognizing Jesus.
“What
is this conversation…? And they stood looking sad.” – The question of Jesus
takes them by surprise so that they have to stop their walking.
“Cleophas”
– now we are given the name of one of the travelers. The fact that Cleopas was
not well known in the early Christian community, and is not in any lists of the
Twelve, adds credibility to the story.
“Are
you the only visitor to Jerusalem who does not know the things that have
happened there in these days?” – the irony is that, whereas the question
assumes Jesus is the only one who does not know of these earth-shattering
events, he is the only one who does know the meaning of all that has taken
place.
“What
things?” – Jesus feigns ignorance. This simple question of Jesus leads to a
lengthy explanation.
Cleopas
summarizes the events of Jesus’ life, leading to his death. The death of Jesus,
which was indeed the fulfillment of all hope, is seen by Cleophas as the
frustration of their hope. He also narrates the report of the women, and
concludes with an emphatic statement, “But him they did not see.”
“O
foolish men, and slow of heart to believe…” - Jesus brings the irony to an end
and reveals himself and the meaning of the resurrection to them. In his
explanation, Jesus insists that suffering was a necessary condition for the
resurrection.
“He
appeared to be going further” – While on the surface, it seems that Jesus did
not want to intrude on their plans. On a deeper level, it reinforces the idea
that Jesus never forces himself on others. Jesus always leaves the other free.
Faith must be a response to God’s constant revelation and grace.
“Stay
with us. So he went in to stay with
them” - Jesus accepts the invitation offered by the two disciples.
“took
the bread and blessed, and broke it, and gave it to them.” – These are the same
verbs that are used at the feeding (9:16) and at the last supper (22:19). Jesus
the guest becomes the host.
“And
their eyes were opened and they recognized him” – At table they saw who the
stranger was. Sharing bread with a stranger makes the Lord present.
“and
he vanished from their sight” – God cannot be captured only by the external
senses. We need to encounter him also in our hearts.
“Did
not our hearts burn within us..?” – Any encounter with Jesus cannot leave one
untouched.
“And
they rose that same hour and returned to Jerusalem...” – The Gospel of Luke
begins and ends in Jerusalem, and the journey to Jerusalem dominates the
ministry of Jesus. The return journey is narrated very briefly. This could also
indicate the urgency of the disciples in wanting to communicate to the others
their experience of Jesus. It was an experience that they could not contain in
their hearts, but had to share with others.
Only
after the two hear of the appearance to Simon do they get a chance to share
their own experience. The words “what had happened on the road” signifies the
conversation that took place between them and Jesus, in which Jesus opened the
scriptures to them. “how he was known to
them in the breaking of the bread” signifies the meal that Jesus shared with
them.
This
story of the appearance of Jesus to the disciples on the road to Emmaus, which
is found only in the Gospel of Luke, speaks about the failure of two disciples
to recognize their fellow traveler. The moment they recognize the Lord, he
disappears from their sight. The story is for the sake of those who will
believe without seeing. It tells us that the presence of the Lord can be known
in experiences that transcend the events of the resurrection appearances. It
tells us that, even in the darkest moments of our lives, when we are tempted to
throw up our hands in despair, when we are tempted to give up, the Lord is walking
by our side. We have only to “open” our eyes to see. Emmaus is not simply a
geographical location. It is a place to which we go to escape from the
realities of life when we find them too hard or harsh to bear. This may be an
external place (a movie theatre, out of the home, somewhere on the road) or a
habit (excessive drinking) or even an internal disposition that we may adopt
(giving into frustration, despair, despondency, depression, etc). Emmaus may be
a feeling that life is not worth living; that everything is in vain, that it is
of no use to anyone whatsoever. Emmaus is whatever we do or wherever we go to
make ourselves forget that even the wisest and bravest and loveliest decay and
die, that even noble and pure ideals like love, fellowship, and freedom, have
been twisted by people for selfish ends. The risen Lord meets us on this, our
road to Emmaus, and assures us of his presence. He invites us not to give up or
give in. He tells us that we must continue despite all evidence to the
contrary, and that we must keep on keeping on. The story also warns us that the
Lord will not always come in the manner in which we expect him to come and,
that he may come when we least expect him.
Monday, 6 April 2026
Tuesday, April 7, 2026 - Have your “tears” come in the way of your encountering the Lord? Will you stop crying today?
To read the texts click on the texts: Acts 2:36-41; Jn 20:11-18
Mary
Magdalene had seen the empty tomb and went and told Peter and the beloved
disciple about it. They, too, go to the tomb and find it empty. While Peter and
the beloved disciple return home (20:1-10), Mary returns to the tomb. Though
John does not give any reason why Mary returns to the tomb, he, also, of all
the evangelists, tells us that she stood outside the tomb weeping. This detail
sets the stage for the fulfillment of the promise of Jesus that the sorrow of
the disciples will turn to joy (16:20, 22). Mary sees the angels who make no
pronouncement of the resurrection. In John, the pronouncement of the
resurrection and ascension comes only through Jesus. The angels only draw
attention to Mary’s present state. Mary’s response to the question of the angels
is a plaintive cry for her “lost” Lord.
Immediately
after she makes this statement, Jesus himself appears to her but, because of
her tears, she cannot recognize him. While Jesus repeats the question of the
angels and thus, draws renewed attention to Mary’s present state, he asks a
second and more important question: “Whom are you looking for?” This, or a
similar question, is asked three times in the Gospel of John. The first time
Jesus asks such a question is to the two disciples who follow him (1:38). These
are the first words spoken by Jesus in the Gospel of John and so, carry added
significance. The question here is “What do you seek?” The second time, the
question is asked of those who come to arrest Jesus in the garden (18:4). The
question in all three instances, while courteous, is a deep and penetrating
question. It requires the one of whom it is asked to go deep into him/herself
to search for the response. The disciples are seeking for the residence of
Jesus but encounter the Messiah. Those who come to arrest Jesus are seeking for
“Jesus of Nazareth” and so are thrown to the ground. Mary Magdalene is seeking for the dead Jesus,
but finds the risen Lord.
Yet,
this recognition of the risen Lord is not easy for Mary to make. While in many
instances in Jesus’ life, the metaphors he used were misunderstood, here it is
Jesus himself. Mary is so caught up in her own desire for the dead Jesus and
for what she wants that she cannot recognize his voice when he asks her two
pertinent questions. It is only when Jesus calls her name that she is awakened.
Though some spiritualize this scene by stating that Mary recognized Jesus since
only he called her in this manner, it is not plausible, since John does not
speak of the intonation or inflection in the voice of Jesus. Others interpret
this scene as a revelation of Jesus as the good shepherd who knows his sheep by
name. The sheep respond to his voice, when he calls to them, as Mary does here.
Though this is more plausible, it must also be noted that Mary does not recognize
Jesus’ voice before he calls her name, although he has asked two questions of
her. It thus seems that the main reason Mary was able to recognize Jesus when
her name was called was because, being so caught up in herself, only calling
her by name would have awakened her from her stupor. That this seems to be the
best explanation is also evident in the response of Mary on hearing her name.
After addressing Jesus as “Rabbouni”, which is an endearing term, she wants to
cling to Jesus. Though the text does not explicitly state that Mary held on to
Jesus, his words indicate that either she was about to do so or had already
done so. Jesus will not allow this. Mary has to go beyond her selfish interests
and get used to the presence of the Lord in a new way. She need not hold onto a
memory since Jesus is and continues to be.
Despite
this self-absorption, Jesus commands Mary to be an apostle, not merely of the
resurrection but of the ascension. For
the first time in the Gospel of John, the Father becomes the Father of the
disciples also. A new family is created. This means that the disciples and
Jesus are related. Jesus is the brother of all disciples and the disciples
share the same relationship with God that Jesus shares.
Mary
does what Jesus commanded. She has indeed seen the risen Lord. This return
makes new life possible for the believing community, because Jesus’ ascent to
God renders permanent that which was revealed about God during the incarnation.
The love of God, embodied in Jesus, was not of temporary duration, lasting only
as long as the incarnation. Rather, the truth of Jesus’ revelation of God
receives its final seal in his return to God.
Self-pity,
uncontrollable grief, and self-absorption can all prevent us from encountering
Jesus in the challenging situations of life just as they did Mary Magdalene.
These emotions take hold of us when we misunderstand the promises of God or,
when we do not take them as seriously as we ought. They arise when we give up,
even before we begin, or when we prefer to be negative rather than positive
about life. It is at times like these that Jesus comes to us, like he came to
Mary Magdalene, and asks us to open our eyes and see that he is still with us
and alive. He asks us to get used to his presence in all things, in all
persons, and in all events. He asks us to be able to see him in the bad times
and in the good, in sickness and in health, and in all the days of our lives.
We need only open our hearts wide enough to see.
Sunday, 5 April 2026
Monday, April 6, 2026 - Has Jesus risen in your heart? How will you show this today?
To read the texts click on the texts: Acts 2:14,22-33; Mt 28:5-15
The scene which forms the
text for today is found only in Matthew’s Gospel. Immediately after the women
leave the empty tomb, to obey the command of the angel to tell Jesus’ disciples
about his resurrection, Jesus himself meets them and thus, they are the first
to see the risen Christ. Through this appearance of the risen Christ, Matthew
stresses a point he made earlier through the Emmanuel prophecy (1:23) in the
Mission Discourse (10:40) and in other parts of his Gospel, that Jesus would
accompany his disciples on Mission. His presence with them would be a constant
presence. The risen Christ, who is simply Jesus, thus stressing the continuity
with the crucified Jesus, repeats the command of the angel. However, in Jesus’
command, the disciples become “brothers,” indicating that they now belong to
the family of Jesus and that all the past has been forgiven. Thus, the women,
besides being communicators of the good news of the resurrection, are also
commanded to communicate reconciliation. Though Jesus appears as he would have
in his life time, he is, nevertheless, the risen Lord as is evident in the
response of the women who take hold of his feet and worship him. The risen
Jesus is real but he is also new.
The second part of the
text (28:11-15) narrates the bribing of the guards and interrupts the flow of
the story. However, it also completes the story begun in 27:62-66 in which the
chief priests and Pharisees ask Pilate to make the tomb secure and Pilate
responds to their request by asking them to place their own guards, which they
do. Though the guards had seen the same events as the women, they do not come
to faith. They narrate to the chief priests “everything that had happened.” The
height of the irony is that the chief priests and elders become the
perpetrators of the very story that they accused the disciples of Jesus of
possibly fabricating. The soldiers are instructed to fall in line with the story
fabricated by the chief priests and elders and money is used as the lure.
The presence of Jesus is
an eternal presence. It is a presence that is always there even when we try to
deny it like the Pharisees did or even when we cannot feel is as tangibly as we
would like. This is not only because of the promise of Jesus to his disciples
and us, but also because of the fact that whenever love is made present Jesus
is, whenever concern for another is shown, Jesus is and whenever we reach out
in love and forgiveness, optimism and hope, Jesus is and continues to be.
Saturday, 4 April 2026
Easter Sunday - April 5, 2026 - Every Area Starts To Enter Renewal
To read the texts click on the texts: Acts 10:34, 37-43; Col 3:1-4 John 20:1-9
The story is told of a
child who began to read the Gospels. Like billions before her. She quickly
became charmed by Jesus. Suddenly, she ran out of her room crying hysterically.
She ran into the arms of her alarmed mother. She cried: "They killed him.
They killed him." Her mother comforted her and then whispered to her,
"Now go back and finish the story."
Death is not the end of
the story. After Jesus it can never be the end. There is one more chapter. This
is the most important chapter because, as the saying goes, they who laugh last
laugh best. And in the last chapter of the story of Jesus we see him rise from
the dead in all glory and majesty. He is vindicated. His enemies are shamed and
confused. Jesus regains his eternal glory with the Father. He is the Lord, who
will prevail over all humankind, his enemies included. For us his followers
this is good news. The story of the suffering and death of Jesus on Good Friday
seems at first glance to be the story of the triumph of falsity over truth, of
injustice over justice, of evil over goodness. Easter turns the tables. Really
truth has triumphed over falsity, justice over injustice and goodness over
evil. Death has been conquered. Life now triumphs even over death.
This is why Peter advised
his Gentile audience that the message that God sent is characterized by radical
inclusion, for God is a God of the living not of the dead. He is a God of
acceptance and not favoritism or partiality. The Easter message is also
unapologetically comprehensive and universal: Jesus is "Lord of all".
Finally, according to Peter, the message that God sent is good news about
peace, not violence, and forgiveness of sin, not its condemnation.
This is also why the text
from the letter to the Colossians exhorts the Colossians and us who are an
Easter people to focus not on the negatives and narrow parochialism but
universality as God himself has revealed in Christ. Our focus and thoughts
ought to be on things which enhance and build up, things which give life and
unity not which cause death and division. By looking in love upon the one who
is truly good and radiant with every grace and virtue we come by this grace to
be re-fashioned in his likeness.
This positive focus was
not easy to have especially when Mary Magdalene saw the stone rolled back and
not only decided that the tomb was empty but even that the body of Jesus had
been taken out of the tomb. It is a picture of dismay and loss of hope. Peter
and the beloved disciple go to the tomb not knowing what to expect, but surely
not expecting the resurrection. However, even as the beloved disciple sees the
linen wrappings from outside the tomb and as Peter sees these as well as the
cloth that had been on Jesus’ head, faith dawns.
In presenting the
disciples and not the risen Christ in this scene, John gives us a picture of
the Church which is struggling to come to hope even in her despair, to come to
trust in her doubt and to come to life even in her death. It is important to
note here that this change of heart is communicated from one to another and
even as this communication is taking place faith is increasing and light is
being shed on the mystery. We have each a part to play in the dawning of faith
for those with whom we live and converse, by what we say, the faith we profess,
but also by how we attend to each other, treat each other. The life of faith is
necessarily collaborative. The Good News of the resurrection is not something
discovered and proclaimed by only one of the disciples, by Peter, by the
beloved disciple or by Mary. But the experiences of each together give rise to
the common faith of the Church.
The collateral
implications of this basic message are radical and comprehensive. Anticipation
displaces dread. Regret gives way to equanimity. Cynicism vanishes before
creativity. Self-control conquers addiction. Purpose usurps futility.
Reconciliation overtakes estrangement. Inner peace calms disquiet and
distraction. Creativity banishes boredom. Darkness has turned to light, fear to
confidence, anxiety to calm, and despair to hope and death has indeed turned to
life in all its fullness. These collateral implications are something like the
fulfillment of one’s deepest desires, one’s wildest dreams, one’s fondest
hopes, and one’s secret wishes, only in this scenario one’s desires, dreams
hopes, and wishes originate from the heart of God rather than from the human
heart curved in on itself. The Easter message shatters and subverts
conventional human wisdom. We will, in fact, cheat death. The physical,
material world is not all that exists, which is to say that spirit transcends
matter, and that for all the many gifts that science has given us, it is not
always the best way to know or the only way to know. Knowledge is a gift and a
pleasure, but love is more powerful still. Despite the shadows of death that
darken our world, if we look carefully we see Easter resurrection breaking out
everywhere. When we see a tree in full blossom and hear the laughter of a
child. When we give and share and live in communion with each other. In our
reaching out to those who have lost hope and communicating hope to them. In the
self-sacrificial goodness of so many people the world over. Then Easter happens
again and again. Magic is in the air. Easter joy, hope, peace and life are for
all.
To read the texts click
on the texts: Acts 10:34, 37-43; Col 3:1-4 John 20:1-9
The story is told of a
child who began to read the Gospels. Like billions before her. She quickly
became charmed by Jesus. Suddenly, she ran out of her room crying hysterically.
She ran into the arms of her alarmed mother. She cried: "They killed him.
They killed him." Her mother comforted her and then whispered to her,
"Now go back and finish the story."
Death is not the end of
the story. After Jesus it can never be the end. There is one more chapter. This
is the most important chapter because, as the saying goes, they who laugh last
laugh best. And in the last chapter of the story of Jesus we see him rise from
the dead in all glory and majesty. He is vindicated. His enemies are shamed and
confused. Jesus regains his eternal glory with the Father. He is the Lord, who
will prevail over all humankind, his enemies included. For us his followers
this is good news. The story of the suffering and death of Jesus on Good Friday
seems at first glance to be the story of the triumph of falsity over truth, of
injustice over justice, of evil over goodness. Easter turns the tables. Really
truth has triumphed over falsity, justice over injustice and goodness over
evil. Death has been conquered. Life now triumphs even over death.
This is why Peter advised
his Gentile audience that the message that God sent is characterized by radical
inclusion, for God is a God of the living not of the dead. He is a God of
acceptance and not favoritism or partiality. The Easter message is also
unapologetically comprehensive and universal: Jesus is "Lord of all".
Finally, according to Peter, the message that God sent is good news about
peace, not violence, and forgiveness of sin, not its condemnation.
This is also why the text
from the letter to the Colossians exhorts the Colossians and us who are an
Easter people to focus not on the negatives and narrow parochialism but
universality as God himself has revealed in Christ. Our focus and thoughts
ought to be on things which enhance and build up, things which give life and
unity not which cause death and division. By looking in love upon the one who
is truly good and radiant with every grace and virtue we come by this grace to
be re-fashioned in his likeness.
This positive focus was
not easy to have especially when Mary Magdalene saw the stone rolled back and
not only decided that the tomb was empty but even that the body of Jesus had
been taken out of the tomb. It is a picture of dismay and loss of hope. Peter
and the beloved disciple go to the tomb not knowing what to expect, but surely
not expecting the resurrection. However, even as the beloved disciple sees the
linen wrappings from outside the tomb and as Peter sees these as well as the
cloth that had been on Jesus’ head, faith dawns.
In presenting the
disciples and not the risen Christ in this scene, John gives us a picture of
the Church which is struggling to come to hope even in her despair, to come to
trust in her doubt and to come to life even in her death. It is important to
note here that this change of heart is communicated from one to another and
even as this communication is taking place faith is increasing and light is
being shed on the mystery. We have each a part to play in the dawning of faith
for those with whom we live and converse, by what we say, the faith we profess,
but also by how we attend to each other, treat each other. The life of faith is
necessarily collaborative. The Good News of the resurrection is not something
discovered and proclaimed by only one of the disciples, by Peter, by the
beloved disciple or by Mary. But the experiences of each together give rise to
the common faith of the Church.
The collateral
implications of this basic message are radical and comprehensive. Anticipation
displaces dread. Regret gives way to equanimity. Cynicism vanishes before
creativity. Self-control conquers addiction. Purpose usurps futility.
Reconciliation overtakes estrangement. Inner peace calms disquiet and
distraction. Creativity banishes boredom. Darkness has turned to light, fear to
confidence, anxiety to calm, and despair to hope and death has indeed turned to
life in all its fullness. These collateral implications are something like the
fulfillment of one’s deepest desires, one’s wildest dreams, one’s fondest
hopes, and one’s secret wishes, only in this scenario one’s desires, dreams
hopes, and wishes originate from the heart of God rather than from the human
heart curved in on itself. The Easter message shatters and subverts
conventional human wisdom. We will, in fact, cheat death. The physical,
material world is not all that exists, which is to say that spirit transcends
matter, and that for all the many gifts that science has given us, it is not
always the best way to know or the only way to know. Knowledge is a gift and a
pleasure, but love is more powerful still. Despite the shadows of death that
darken our world, if we look carefully we see Easter resurrection breaking out
everywhere. When we see a tree in full blossom and hear the laughter of a
child. When we give and share and live in communion with each other. In our
reaching out to those who have lost hope and communicating hope to them. In the
self-sacrificial goodness of so many people the world over. Then Easter happens
again and again. Magic is in the air. Easter joy, hope, peace and life are for
all.
Friday, 3 April 2026
Holy Saturday, April 4, 2026 - THE SEVEN SORROWS OF MARY
BEING WITH MARY
During the course of our meditation this
morning, when all over the world is Holy Saturday, we will spend this time with
Mary by going through the mysteries of her life as mother of Jesus, as mother
of God and see what fruit we can draw from the manner in which she responded.
There are so many things that one could say about Mary but for our reflection
this morning I will take, what is commonly called the 7 sorrows, the 7 dolours
of our Blessed Mother.
The first of these is the prophecy of Simeon, Lk 2:34-35 - Jesus is brought by Mary and his foster father to the temple to be presented to God, to be gifted to God, to be handed over to God. And even as he is presented, Simeon who was waiting for the Lord’s kingdom realizes that it has come in this child. And his response on encountering Jesus is to address his mother, He speaks to Mary and tells her in prophecy that Jesus will be a sign that is accepted, and rejected, a sign that will frighten those who are corrupt and dishonest, a sign that will wake people up from their slumber and a sign that will be rejected and killed. And even as he says that, he brings Mary into salvation history when he speaks of a sword piercing Mary’s heart as well. Mary will be a collaborator with her son in achieving salvation history. And through this prophecy of Simeon brings to our attention the fact that just because God has favoured her, just because God has chosen her, just because God has given her the privilege and honour of being the mother of Jesus does not necessarily mean that everything will be smooth sailing. As a matter of fact it means she would have more difficulties than others who were not chosen. So often in our lives we might tend to lose hope, we might tend to think God is not on our side, we might tend to think that God is punishing us and we might ask “where is God in all of this?” If we reflect on the prophecy of Simeon addressed to Mary we will realize God is constantly present. So let the first sorrow of Mary be an inspiration for us that no matter how many trials we may have to undergo, no matter how many swords pierce our own hearts, we will look to Mary for consolation and strength.
The second sorrow is traditionally narrated as the flight into Egypt Mt. 2:13-15. It speaks you might say of displacement, it speaks you might say of uprootedness, it speaks you might say of change and transformation, it speaks you might say of Mary and Joseph’s world being turned upside down; it speaks of instability, it speaks of the fact that they are unable to make their home in one particular place, and have to constantly to be like pilgrims moving from one place to another. Many of us are fortunate to be living in the same place for a number of years, many of us are fortunate to have stable homes, many of us are fortunate to live in countries in which the political situation is stable and there is no threat of a war; and yet I want you to reflect on the instability of your life, of sometimes your own life is turned upside down and upheavals in your heart, when you are having marital discord for example, when your children go astray for example, when your parents don’t understand you for example, when in the community of religious you feel that you are isolated and alone, when as the Superior of the community or as the Parish Priest as in a parish, you feel that the parishioners, the members of your community don’t understand you, hen you go through these upheavals, there’s unprootedness I would like you to bring to mind the flight into Egypt, and you will see and reflect on how Mary and Joseph were so obedient to God’s word because they knew that God’s plan for them was better than the plan they would have for themselves. The flight into Egypt is a sign that God is in charge. So no matter how many upheavals there may be in your life, no matter how many times you might be uprooted in your hear, keep in mind that at these times the Lord is with you.
The third sorrow is commonly called the finding in the temple Lk 2:41-52 and even though it seems that it was Mary who found Jesus, my own interpretation is Jesus was never lost. It was Mary who was lost without Jesus, because the answer, the response of Jesus to his mother “Why did you look for me, you ought to know where I can be found. I can be found doing my Father’s business,” Mary was, at least in the beginning, looking in the wrong place and then she realized that Jesus is found when we do God’s will. And that is why in the gospel of Luke; Mary is portrayed right from the time of the Annunciation in Lk 1:26-38, till the end of the gospel, as a woman who constantly does God’s will. She learnt, you might say, from that incident of finding in the temple that if she had to be a disciple of her son, she to constantly do God’s will. And so I ask you where are you looking for Jesus? If you are looking for him only in the tabernacle, if you are looking for him only in the church, if you are looking for him only in holy places, you are looking for a very, very, limited places because the Lord in the words of Teilhard de Chardin, the Cosmic Christ, the Lord is now the Risen Christ, the Lord must now be found in all things, in all persons, in all situations. And primarily, as the Lord tells us in Mt 7:21-28, the Lord can be found when you do God’s will.
The fourth sorrow of Our Lady which is not really narrated by the scriptures is Mary encounters Jesus carrying his cross. Even though none of the scriptures speak about Jesus meeting his mother on the way to Calvary or Golgotha, tradition is clear about this encounter because the Gospel of Luke tells us Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem on his way to Jerusalem. So surely he would have met his mother. What kind of an encounter do you think it would have been? Do you think that Mary would have been feeling sorry for herself; do you think she would have been feeling sorry for er son, do you think she would want to reach out to Jesus and wipe his battered face? Do you think that she would want to help Jesus carry the cross? What kind of an encounter would this have been? I invite you to spend a few moments reliving this scene, seeing in your mind’s eye the Mother and Son. I would like to think that they would each be consoling the other. I would like to think that they would each be strengthening the other; I would like to think that they would each be reaching out to the other rather than being concerned about their sorrow. And so this encounter might be summarized in one word ‘selflessness’. It might be termed as a reaching out. When you reach out even when you’re sad and you feel the whole world is conspiring against you, when you reach out in sympathy and empathy to someone else, when you avoid making yourself the focus and saying ‘Oh, look at me, how I’m suffering for my sins and for the sins of the others”. When you avoid doing that and look outside of yourself then you are being like Mary focusing on Jesus, and focusing on others.
The fifth sorrow is Jesus dies on the cross Jn19:25-27 narrates this scene where Mary and the beloved disciple are standing at the foot of Jesus’ cross. And Jesus, before his last breath in the Gospel of John hands over his mother to the beloved disciple and hands over the disciple to his mother. Who then is the beloved disciple? The beloved disciple is anyone who loves Jesus. So if you love Jesus you cannot but take Mary into your home, if you love Jesus you cannot but honour his mother and ours. If you love Jesus, you cannot but make Mary an integral part of your life. As a matter of fact in the Gospel of John this is how Church is described. The Spirit of Jesus (which he breathes before his death), the beloved disciple (anyone who loves Jesus) and the mother of Jesus. These three elements make up church. These three are what church is all about in the Gospel of John. So today let us realize that we cannot really have a full church, the church of the Lord unless his mother is in that church as well. I am fond of saying that if Mary had to say NO we would never have had Jesus, and you would not even be listening to this talk of mine. So the fact that you are listening to the talk has its origin in Mary. And once again I repeat the beautiful words of the Memorare “It was never know that anyone who fled to her protection was left unaided.” And proof of that is again in the scriptures where the mind of Jesus has changed because of the intervention of Mary at Cana, Jn 2:1-12.
The sixth sorrow is Jesus is handed over to his mother, the pieta of Michael Angelo. And if you can google this, put down ‘pieta’, you will get a number of images of this beautiful scene, you will a number of images of this beautiful scene portrayed. So beautifully by Michael Angelo and so many artists after and before him of Jesus lying dead in the lap of his mother. And Mary is not a woman who’s going to shed tears for herself; Mary is not a woman who’s going to shed tears for her son, Mary is a woman who’s going to continue the mission because she knows that her son has done all that was required of him and that she is to do all that is required of her. And that brings me once again to how so many of us unfortunately cry at the death of a loved one as if the person is never going to rise again, how many of us cry at the death of loved one for years after the person has gone simply because we do not believe in the Resurrection. If you are one of those who is crying for a dead parent, or a dead relative, or a dead friend, then I need your you to understand that our God is not a God of the dead, but a God of the living. And so today is not a day when you shed tears. Today is a day when you give thanks that God did through your parent, through your friend, through your relative who is now living with God all the beautiful things. And now you have to let go, now we have to leave it in the hands of God, now you have to believe that the person is in a much, much better place and situation than ever before.
And the last sorrow is when Jesus is laid in the tomb, Even as we stand watching them lay Jesus in the tomb, let us stand with Mary and us stand with confidence, let stand with courage, let us stand with trust and faith and hope
Let us remain quiet and as we see the
stone being rolled to close the tomb, let us together recite the Hail and Holy
Mary. Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you, blessed are you among
women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, mother of God,
pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen